THE MARRIAGE 12 COMMANDMENT
1.
There is nothing that threatens the security of a wife than the thought of
another woman competing for the attention and affection of her husband. Nothing
is more painful. Nothing is more disrespecting. Nothing is more insulting.
Nothing is more belittling and degrading.
2.
Marriage flourishes when the couple works together as a team; when both husband
and wife decide that winning together is more important than keeping score.
Good marriages don't just happen. They are a product of hard work.
3. Your
children are watching you and forming lasting opinions on love, commitment, and
marriage based on what they see in you. Give them hope. Make them look forward
to marriage.
4.
Husbands: The reason why other women look attractive is because someone is
taking good care of them. Grass is always green where it is watered. Instead of
drooling over the green grass on the other side of the fence, work on yours and
water it regularly. Any man can admire a beautiful woman, but it takes a true
gentleman to make a woman admirable and beautiful.
5. When
a husband puts his wife first above everyone and everything except God, it
gives his wife the sense of security and honor that every wife hungers for.
6. A
successful marriage doesn't require a big house, a prefect spouse, a million
dollars or an expensive car. You can have all the above and still have a
miserable marriage. A successful marriage requires honesty, undying commitment
and selfless love and Jesus at the center of it all.
7. Pray
for your spouse every day; in the morning, in the afternoon and at evening.
Don’t wait until there is a problem. Don’t wait until there is an affair. Don’t
wait until something bad happens. Don’t wait until your spouse is tempted.
Shield your spouse with prayer and cover your marriage with the fence of
prayer.
8. The
people you surround yourself with have a lot of influence on your marriage.
Friends can build or break your marriage; choose them wisely.
9. One
spouse cannot build a marriage alone when the other spouse is committed to
destroying it. Marriage works when both husband and wife work together as a
team to build their marriage.
10.
Don't take your spouse for granted. Don't take advantage of your spouse's
meekness and goodness. Don't mistake your spouse's loyalty for desperation.
Don't misuse or abuse yours spouse's trust. You may end up regretting after
losing someone that meant so much to you.
11.
Beware of marital advice from single people. Regardless of how sincere their
advice may be, most of it is theoretical and not derived from real life
experiences. If you really need Godly advice, seek it from God-fearing,
impartial and prayerful mature couples whose resolve has been tested by time
and shaped by trials.
12.
Dear wife, Don't underestimate the power of the tongue on your marriage. The
tongue has the power to crush your marriage or build it up. Don't let the Devil
use your tongue to kill your spouse's image, self-confidence and aspirations.
Let God use your tongue to build up your marriage and bless and praise your
spouse.
The PONIEER of PURPOSEFUL
LIVING.
(A man I admire his undiluted passion for God and Human)
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