1 what was the first thing
that attracted you about me?
2 Do you think that physical attributes are more important to maintaining a relationship or do you think that friendship maintains a relationship?
3 When you look at a woman, what is the first thing you notice?
4 Do you think its ok to keep noticing another woman after you are in a committed relationship? Does this change when you are married?
5. What is the first thing that you notice when you look at a man?
6. If I don’t say so, how do you know that I want to make love?
7. Describe the way I smell.
8. Tell me how you describe me to other people?
9. How often do you believe it is normal to want sex?
10 Do you masturbate?
11. How do you feel if I come into the bathroom when you are using the facilities?
12. When was the last time you took a shower together?
13. If your friend was cheating on their spouse, do you think you should tell their partner?
14. If your friend was cheating on their spouse, would you tell your spouse about it?
15. What were you thinking about right before you kissed me for the first time?
16. After I had asked you out for the first time, did you consider saying no?
17. Was there anything that you were worried about the first time we were about to become naked?
18. How old were you when you had your first kiss?
19. How old were you the first time you had sex?
20. How old were you the first time you thought you were in love?
21. Who helped you figure out how to ask someone out on your first date?
22. Did you parents tell you about sex, or did you already know?
23. Describe your parents marriage. What was the best part and the worst part in your opinion?
24. Who was the first person who died in your life and how did you feel?
25. What animals do you like and not like?
26. Describe your perfect dream date.
27. Describe your perfect wedding.
28. Do you have sexual dreams? Tell me about some of them.
29. What is the most important thing that money can do for you?
30. Who had control of the money when you were growing up?
31. How did you learn what it meant to be a man/woman?
32. Do you believe in God?
33. If money were no object, what is the one thing that would be most important to you to do?
34. If you had one day to live, what would you do?
35. If you won the lottery, what would you like to accomplish?
38. When you were a child, did you ever experiment sexually with another child?
39. Were you ever sexually, emotionally, or verbally abused?
40. Who is the person you admire most and why?
41. What is the one thing that would be a relationship breaker for you?
42. How important do you think monogamy is to a relationship?
43. Who do you believe is the dominant one in a relationship and why?
44 How do you feel about having children?
45 Describe your philosophy on personal debt.
46 What is the one thing that I do that makes you crazy?
47 If you were really in trouble, who would you go to for advice?
48 Who do you feel responsible for in your life?
49 What are you beliefs about abortion?
50 How important do you believe organized religion is in a couples relationship?
51 Tell me when you first knew you loved me?
52 How do you handle anger? Has it ever caused a problem in your life?
53 How do you think divorce affects the couple involved?
54 What do you think should determine when a couple has a child?
55 How do you plan to handle the aging of your parents?
56 If you died today, how would you like your final arrangements handled?
57 What do you think happens to you when you die?
58 If you were going to write a book, what would it be about?
59 Where is the one place that you want to go and why?
60 If you could live anywhere, where would it be and why?
61 If you won the lottery, would you continue working?
62 Do you feel that you have ever shown prejudice to another person?
63 Who is your very best friend and why?
64 How did you choose the career you are in?
65 What is one thing that could happen that would make your day?
66 What is the most unselfish thing that you think you have ever done?
67 Do you believe in ghosts?
68 What would you want people to say about you after you had passed away?
69 What is your goal for the next 12 months? How do you plan to reach it?
70 Do you feel that you have enough education?
71 What was the biggest mistake you think you ever made and how did it change your life?
72 If you found someone’s wallet, what would you do with it?
73 Do you feel that one partner in a couple should be able to vacation alone?
74 What is important in a marriage to you?
75 What led up to your decision to get married? Why did you decide the time and person were right?
76 What is the last book you read? What was the most important reason for reading that book?
77 Do you think that taking a pen or scratch pad home from work is stealing?
78 Do you have a sexual fantasy that you haven’t acted out?
79 Have you ever experimented with someone of the same sex? What is your opinion of homosexuality?
80 Do you vote for the same party every election? Why?
81 When you are depressed, what do you do or how do you act? What do you do to overcome the depression?
82 Have you ever achieved a New Year resolution?
83 Who has the primary responsibility in marriage for raising the children?
84 What is the one thing that you'd like to change about yourself?
85 Have I ever embarrassed you?
86 If you could change one thing about me, what would it be?
87 What is the biggest regret in your life?
88 What is the biggest known secret in your family that nobody talks about?
89 What was your favourite age to be and why?
90 Do you believe that couples should keep separate bank accounts ? Who controls the money?
91 What do you do to make your partner happy that you don’t particularly like to do?
92 What is something that I do sexually that you like and don’t think that I do often enough?
93 If you could ask me one question, what would that be?
94 How do you know when I’m mad?
95 What is the one thing that you think that I could do that would hurt you the worst?
96 What do I cook that you are tired of?
97 If I were to cook something to surprise you, what would you like it to be?
98 What did you think the first time you met my mother and father?
99 After divorce, what do you think that parents could do to make the transition easier on the children?
100 Do you think that children of divorce are more likely to later be the victim of divorce?
101 How long do you think a person should spend alone between relationships?
102 Do you think men love differently than women?
103 If you are a man, what is the one thing that you think it would be important for a woman to know about men or vice versa
104 Do you think marriage counselling works and why or why not?
105 Define love?
106 What is the most important thing in your life?
107 What are you most ashamed of and why?
108 Do you believe that an internet affair is actually an affair?
109 Have you ever dated a married man/woman?
110 How would you describe your moral values?
111 How do you think you teach children moral values?
112 Who should talk to the children about sex and when?
113 What part do you think that you play in a child education?
114 What is your opinion of paying child support and/or alimony?
115 What do you think makes successful people successful?
116 What is the first memory you have?
117 What is the thing that you fear most?
118 What would change in your life if you had total responsibility for your life and could never blame anyone else for anything?
119 What is the one thing that you wish that I would tell you?
120 When do you think that it is OK to keep a secret and why?
2 Do you think that physical attributes are more important to maintaining a relationship or do you think that friendship maintains a relationship?
3 When you look at a woman, what is the first thing you notice?
4 Do you think its ok to keep noticing another woman after you are in a committed relationship? Does this change when you are married?
5. What is the first thing that you notice when you look at a man?
6. If I don’t say so, how do you know that I want to make love?
7. Describe the way I smell.
8. Tell me how you describe me to other people?
9. How often do you believe it is normal to want sex?
10 Do you masturbate?
11. How do you feel if I come into the bathroom when you are using the facilities?
12. When was the last time you took a shower together?
13. If your friend was cheating on their spouse, do you think you should tell their partner?
14. If your friend was cheating on their spouse, would you tell your spouse about it?
15. What were you thinking about right before you kissed me for the first time?
16. After I had asked you out for the first time, did you consider saying no?
17. Was there anything that you were worried about the first time we were about to become naked?
18. How old were you when you had your first kiss?
19. How old were you the first time you had sex?
20. How old were you the first time you thought you were in love?
21. Who helped you figure out how to ask someone out on your first date?
22. Did you parents tell you about sex, or did you already know?
23. Describe your parents marriage. What was the best part and the worst part in your opinion?
24. Who was the first person who died in your life and how did you feel?
25. What animals do you like and not like?
26. Describe your perfect dream date.
27. Describe your perfect wedding.
28. Do you have sexual dreams? Tell me about some of them.
29. What is the most important thing that money can do for you?
30. Who had control of the money when you were growing up?
31. How did you learn what it meant to be a man/woman?
32. Do you believe in God?
33. If money were no object, what is the one thing that would be most important to you to do?
34. If you had one day to live, what would you do?
35. If you won the lottery, what would you like to accomplish?
38. When you were a child, did you ever experiment sexually with another child?
39. Were you ever sexually, emotionally, or verbally abused?
40. Who is the person you admire most and why?
41. What is the one thing that would be a relationship breaker for you?
42. How important do you think monogamy is to a relationship?
43. Who do you believe is the dominant one in a relationship and why?
44 How do you feel about having children?
45 Describe your philosophy on personal debt.
46 What is the one thing that I do that makes you crazy?
47 If you were really in trouble, who would you go to for advice?
48 Who do you feel responsible for in your life?
49 What are you beliefs about abortion?
50 How important do you believe organized religion is in a couples relationship?
51 Tell me when you first knew you loved me?
52 How do you handle anger? Has it ever caused a problem in your life?
53 How do you think divorce affects the couple involved?
54 What do you think should determine when a couple has a child?
55 How do you plan to handle the aging of your parents?
56 If you died today, how would you like your final arrangements handled?
57 What do you think happens to you when you die?
58 If you were going to write a book, what would it be about?
59 Where is the one place that you want to go and why?
60 If you could live anywhere, where would it be and why?
61 If you won the lottery, would you continue working?
62 Do you feel that you have ever shown prejudice to another person?
63 Who is your very best friend and why?
64 How did you choose the career you are in?
65 What is one thing that could happen that would make your day?
66 What is the most unselfish thing that you think you have ever done?
67 Do you believe in ghosts?
68 What would you want people to say about you after you had passed away?
69 What is your goal for the next 12 months? How do you plan to reach it?
70 Do you feel that you have enough education?
71 What was the biggest mistake you think you ever made and how did it change your life?
72 If you found someone’s wallet, what would you do with it?
73 Do you feel that one partner in a couple should be able to vacation alone?
74 What is important in a marriage to you?
75 What led up to your decision to get married? Why did you decide the time and person were right?
76 What is the last book you read? What was the most important reason for reading that book?
77 Do you think that taking a pen or scratch pad home from work is stealing?
78 Do you have a sexual fantasy that you haven’t acted out?
79 Have you ever experimented with someone of the same sex? What is your opinion of homosexuality?
80 Do you vote for the same party every election? Why?
81 When you are depressed, what do you do or how do you act? What do you do to overcome the depression?
82 Have you ever achieved a New Year resolution?
83 Who has the primary responsibility in marriage for raising the children?
84 What is the one thing that you'd like to change about yourself?
85 Have I ever embarrassed you?
86 If you could change one thing about me, what would it be?
87 What is the biggest regret in your life?
88 What is the biggest known secret in your family that nobody talks about?
89 What was your favourite age to be and why?
90 Do you believe that couples should keep separate bank accounts ? Who controls the money?
91 What do you do to make your partner happy that you don’t particularly like to do?
92 What is something that I do sexually that you like and don’t think that I do often enough?
93 If you could ask me one question, what would that be?
94 How do you know when I’m mad?
95 What is the one thing that you think that I could do that would hurt you the worst?
96 What do I cook that you are tired of?
97 If I were to cook something to surprise you, what would you like it to be?
98 What did you think the first time you met my mother and father?
99 After divorce, what do you think that parents could do to make the transition easier on the children?
100 Do you think that children of divorce are more likely to later be the victim of divorce?
101 How long do you think a person should spend alone between relationships?
102 Do you think men love differently than women?
103 If you are a man, what is the one thing that you think it would be important for a woman to know about men or vice versa
104 Do you think marriage counselling works and why or why not?
105 Define love?
106 What is the most important thing in your life?
107 What are you most ashamed of and why?
108 Do you believe that an internet affair is actually an affair?
109 Have you ever dated a married man/woman?
110 How would you describe your moral values?
111 How do you think you teach children moral values?
112 Who should talk to the children about sex and when?
113 What part do you think that you play in a child education?
114 What is your opinion of paying child support and/or alimony?
115 What do you think makes successful people successful?
116 What is the first memory you have?
117 What is the thing that you fear most?
118 What would change in your life if you had total responsibility for your life and could never blame anyone else for anything?
119 What is the one thing that you wish that I would tell you?
120 When do you think that it is OK to keep a secret and why?
